Wednesday, April 13, 2005

Don’t Not Be Gay if You Are

I know someone who is gay and hasn’t admitted it to him/herself. To protect this person’s identity, I’m not going to tell you which Andy it is. We’ll just let the two of them fight it out.

You should just be who you are. It is very tough being what you are not. Very stressful. It IS easier if you can find a place to be around others with identity crises. Since there is no Church of the Closet Homosexual, they can’t all get together and not be what they are.

When you try to be something you’re not, you end up feeling guilty, unhappy, bitter and discontent. This isn’t just an issue with closet homosexuals though. Everyone wants to be rich and/or famous, so they do things to convince everyone they are. All it leads to are terrible things like debt and political correctness.

I’ll never forget the sign I saw in the bathroom of El Hacienda Ranch restaurant in Frisco, TX. “Be what you is. If you don’t, they sho nuff gonna find out what you ain’t.”

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